Clyde River Pioneer Cemetery – Never forget those you come from
An old cemetery tells a story. It tells of the founding families in a community, a child coddled by her mother for only a few months, a young husband whose wife died in childbirth and was left to raise an infant, a young person taken by a disease that could be treated today and another who despite all lived to ripe old age. It also tells us the story about who we are, where we come from and about those who sacrificed to make a better life for their children. Just standing on this sacred ground by the beautiful river made me want to know their stories. The cemetery sign says in the pioneers’ mother tongue of Gaelic, “Cuimhnich air na daoine bho’n d’thanaig thu which translates to “Never forget those you come from”.
This Pioneer Cemetery was the original Baptist Cemetery in Clyde River which was located on the river just down from the location of the original Baptist Church, now the Livingston property. When it was decided to build the new church beside Clyde River School (currently Riverview Community Centre), the old church building was used for the community hall and later removed. It is now located on the property of Brian MacPhee on the Bannockburn Road.
The following are the family stones in the Pioneer Cemetery. We have transcribed the inscriptions. Most of the names, dates and epitaphs were legible, and with the help of Island Register, Canadian Historic Places and History and Stories of Clyde River, more information could be added. Also, Eric MacPhail had developed a scrapbook featuring notes and photos which meticulously details the restoration of the cemetery in 1995, the Clyde River Cemetery Restoration Service on September 1, 1996, along with background information on how the people buried in the Pioneer Cemetery are connected to the people we know in Clyde River.
The following names appear in alphabetical order. If any of you have further information than appears here, we invite you to make notes in the comments section and we will update the story.
Elma Harvey
Elma A. Harvey, born March 11, 1890, died July 22, 1890
Elma was the infant daughter of Sarah Ann McLean and Elmer Harvey. Sarah Ann was the daughter of Allan McLean. Their other children were Laura and Evangeline (Jean). Harvey McLean was named after Jean Harvey at her request.
Elmer Harvey built the home where C.D. McLean later lived. C.D. was the half sister of Sarah MacLean.
Sarah McLean’s brother John Duff McLean (1853-1926) married Euphemia MacQuarrie (1849-1926). This is how the McLeans are related to the McQuarries in Clyde River. Sarah and John Duff’s mother was Catherine Duff (1826-1869), Allan McLean’s first wife.
Ann Henderson
In memory of Ann Henderson, beloved wife of Donald McLeod, died October, 1851, age 31
During this time, stones often featured the woman’s maiden name and then her husband’s name. There is no confirmed information about Ann, but she could have been the sister of John Henderson.
Editor’s note: Carved roses often appear on a woman’s stone. A rose bud, which this appears to be, represents a life not fully lived.
Jessie Henderson
In memory of Jessie, beloved wife of John Henderson, died Oct. 1, 1870, age 65
Near us thou wert and justly dear
We will not weep for thee
One thought shall check the starting tears
It is that thou art free
Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord
Jessie was a MacEachern from Lot 48 (Mermaid area). Jessie and John’s children were Ewen, Archie, Annabelle (married John Murray) – named a daughter Jessie, Mary (married William Ward) and Margaret (married John Ladner). John was Baptist and Jessie was Presbyterian. The sons were raised Presbyterian, but the daughters were Baptist. Annabelle married John Murray, the grandparents of Lloyd Murray, Everett Murray and Hilda Beer – their father was Wallace Murray. Annabelle is the author of the Murray diaries from 1911-1925 which are part of the Clyde River museum collection. She is buried in the Baptist Church Cemetery. Her sister Mary married William Ward, Davis Ward’s grandfather (Davis’ parents were Benjamin Ward and Hattie (Beer) – Wards lived in Upper Bannockburn Road in Hampshire). Margaret (1839-1928) married John Ladner (1834-1908), the grandfather of Ernest Ladner (1912-1987) who married Beulah MacPhail. John Ladner’s grandfather, also named John, ran a sawmill on the Bannockburn Road. Hilda Beer always said they were connected to the Ladners and now we know that the connection was through the Hendersons.
Jessie (MacEachern) Henderson would be the Great x2 Grandmother of Fred Beer, Donna Beer Green, Donald Murray, Byron Murray and Joan Murray Smith.
Editor’s note: Carving of a thistle would be a symbol of Scotland.
The epitaph is a verse from a psalm on Life and Death. The full psalm is:
Near us thou wert and justly dear
We will not weep for thee
One thought shall check the starting tears
It is that thou art free
And thus shall faith’s consoling power
The tears of love restrain
O who that saw thy parting hour
Could wish thee back again.
Triumphant in thy closing eye
The hope of glory shone
Joy breathed in thin expiring sigh
To think the fight was won
Gently the passing spirit fled
Sustained by grace devine
O may such grace on me be shed
And make my end like thine
Reverend Thomas Dale (1797-1870) – poet and theologian. Written in 1818.
Elizabeth (McPhail) Livingston
In memory of Elizabeth, beloved wife of Malcolm Livingston, died September 8, 1874, age 58
A few short years of evil past
We reach that happy shore
Where death-divided friends at last
Should meet, to part no more
According to the Livingston’s of Clyde River, Lot 31, on Island Register website, Malcolm and Elizabeth (McPhail) had 5 children: Son who died at 3 years, Barbara Ellen, Donald, Annie and Mary. Malcolm was born coming across on The Rambler in 1806. His parents were Donald and Flora (MacPhail) Livingston. He was their first child and named after her father Malcolm McPhail. He married Elizabeth in 1837. Malcolm died in Charlottetown in 1888 at 82 years old. No record of who Elizabeth’s parents were but indicates she was born on Baltic Road farm. We think she may have been some relation to Angus McPhail who owned Ardmore Farm on Bannockburn Road which is now owned by the Beer Family. The McPhails came from Aros, Isle of Mull. The main road through the village is Ardmor.
Editor’s note: Carver’s name features on bottom left. Bible featured in carving represents wisdom. Ivy symbolizes friendship and immortality.
Elizabeth’s epitaph is a verse from a Scottish Psalm. Here is the full psalm:
Take comfort, Christians, when your friends
in Jesus fall asleep;
Their better being never ends;
why then dejected weep?
Why inconsolable, as those
to whom no hope is giv’n?
Death is the messenger of peace,
and calls the soul to heav’n.
As Jesus died, and rose again
victorious from the dead;
So his disciples rise, and reign
with their triumphant Head.
The time draws nigh, when from the clouds
Christ shall with shouts descend,
And the last trumpet’s awful voice
the heav’ns and earth shall rend.
Then they who live shall changed be,
and they who sleep shall wake;
The graves shall yield their ancient charge,
and earth’s foundations shake.
The saints of God, from death set free,
with joy shall mount on high;
The heav’nly hosts with praises loud
shall meet them in the sky,
Together to their Father’s house
with joyful hearts they go;
And dwell for ever with the Lord,
beyond the reach of woe.
A few short years of evil past,
we reach the happy shore,
where death-divided friends at last
shall meet, to part no more.
McLaughlin
MacLaughlin
1888 Chester 1890
1894 Mabel 1904
Beloved children of John and Ophelia MacLaughlin
Duncan MacLaughlin, 1857-1900
This stone was erected in the late 1980s by Nelson MacLaughlin, then MLA in the Province of Alberta, son of John and Ophelia MacLaughlin. Ophelia was sister of Charles D. MacLean. His sister was Helen (MacLaughlin) Black who also lived in Western Canada.
Janet McLauchlin
Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord
In memory of Janet McLauchlin, wife of Alexander Wares, died June 7, 1873
Janet and Alexander were the parents of Duncan Wares who married Margaret Murray. Wares did not continue to be a common name in Clyde River, and it is believed they moved to Green Bay, PEI. Janet and Alexander Wares children were Alexander, George (Buried in Burnside cemetery), John, Livina (Buried in Burnside cemetery), Jessie Ann and Ettie Blanche.
A. McL.
A. McL.
No known information. (Note: This may have been a stone that was later replaced, see next entry.)
Archibald McLean
In memory of Archibald McLean, died April 6, 1866, age 38
They being dead yet speaketh
Yet again I hope to meet thee
When the day of life is fled
Then in heaven with joy to greet thee
Where no farewell tear is shed
No known information.
Charles & Catherine McLean
In memory of Charles McLean, August 8, 1867, age 84, also his wife Catherine, died Jan. 21, 1879
Charles was an original settler of a Meadowbank property, later owned by Harvey and Jean MacLean. Paternal lineage – Charles, then Allan, Charles D., Gordon, Harvey, Allen and then Kenneth.
Charles McLean’s daughter Mary married to Archie MacQuarrie. Another daughter Ann married to James Cann who owned 26 acres on Bannockburn Road which is now part of the Beer farm.
Editor’s note: Lamb symbolizes Christ, Redeemer.
John L. McLean
Father, in memory of John L. McLean of Argyle Shore, died May 21, 1903, age 68
God is Love
Life’s labor done.
His wife
No known information. It is assumed that his wife ensured that there were details about her husband on the stone, having pre-deceased her. It appears that there was no one left to ensure her details were added.
Editor’s note: Carver is Chandler & Bell. Shaking of hands symbolizes farewell to earthly existence. The hand on the left is the one of the deceased and the hand on the right is the Almighty welcoming the person into heaven. The shamrock shape represents the Trinity.
Morrow
Sandstone headstone (not legible) but records indicate:
Morrow, died April 6, 1858
This is a sandstone marker that was too fragile to maintain legible engraving. There is no known information about this person. When our ancestors were immigrating to Prince Edward Island, they would have had strong gaelic accents and fear of uniformed immigration officers. There is some speculation that Morrow and Murray could have been one and the same family name.
It could be the older or temporary stone for Angus Murray that was later replaced and appears in the next entry as the death dates are the same. In general reference material, we found that sometimes when they were digging a grave, they would take the largest stone found and carve it with the name of the deceased until such time they would have the permanent stone carved. This could be the case if it was an unexpected death.
Angus Murray
In memory of Angus Murray, born in 1808 and died April 6, 1858 at 49 by drowning after his horse went through the ice.
Angus Murray was the first son of John Murray and Mary McPhail. He was born the year they migrated from Scotland and possibly born at sea on the way over. His siblings are Catherine, Mary, Margaret, Donald, Alexander, John, Duncan and Mary. He married Isabella MacPhail and their children were Anne, Archibald John, Margaret, Benjamin, Donald, Flora, Angus, Jane, and Alexander.
Editor’s note: Bible symbolizes wisdom and includes carving of finger pointing to heaven.
Anne Murray
In memory of Anne Murray, died February 14, 1908, age 101 (last burial in cemetery)
She was the wife of Donald Murray and their son John Alexander Murray (1842-1903) married Annabelle Henderson writer of the Murray Diaries that are in the Clyde River museum collection. Other children were Mary (1838-1853), Margaret (1848-1987) – married Duncan Wares, Alexander Daniel (1848-1853), Sarah Jane (1852-1930) – married Angus Charles McLean (buried in Burnside Cemetery) and parents of Heber McLean, and Mary Ann (1854-1855). Anne is the great-grandmother of Lloyd Murray, Everett Murray and Hilda Beer. Anne was formerly Anne MacKinnon, Aunt of Neil MacKinnon who was the grandfather of Reggie MacKinnon. The new Baptist Cemetery had already been established, but it was Anne’s wish to be buried here with her husband and two of her young children.
Anne would be the Great x2 Grandmother of Fred Beer, Donna Beer Green, Donald Murray, Byron Murray and Joan Murray Smith.
Editor’s note: Carved roses are often featured on a woman’s stone. Symbolizes love, beauty, hope and unfailing love. A full rose signifies someone who has had a full live which she did. Carver’s signature in bottom left corner.
Catherine Murray
In memory of Catherine Murray, died March 9, 1891, age 80
Catherine was born in 1810, the first daughter of John Murray and Mary McPhail. She didn’t marry and lived with her sister Mary (John) MacLaughlin. He other siblings were Margaret, Donald, Alexander, John, Duncan and Mary.
Editor’s note: Carved roses are often featured on a woman’s stone. Symbolizes love, beauty, hope and unfailing love. A full rose signifies someone who has had a full live. If the rose is separated from the stem, it represents their separation from us.
Donald, Alexander & Mary Ann Murray
In memory of Donald Murray, died Feb. 11, 1879, age 65 years
Also his children…
Alexander Dan, died May 3, 1853, age 5 years
Mary Ann, born April 1854 and died July 16, 1855, age 1 year, 3 mos.
Erected by his daughter
Donald was the husband of Anne Murray. The children of John and Anne also included Mary (1838-1853), John Murray (1842-1903) – married Annabelle Henderson; Margaret (1848-1887) – married Duncan Wares, Sarah (Murray) McLean (1852-1930), mother of Heber McLean.
Donald is the Great x2 Grandfather of Fred Beer, Donna Green Beer, Donald Murray, Byron Murray and Joan Murray Smith.
Editor’s note: The carving features a hand pointing to heaven. Symbolizes a blessing from God. Oak leaves are a symbol of strength, honour, steadfastness and immortality. Fleur de lis represents life or the Trinity.
Jessie Wares
In memory of Jessie daughter of Margaret and Duncan Wares, died April 17, 1876, age 11 days
She was the 5th child of Margaret and Duncan and was born on April 6th and died on the 17th. She is the granddaughter of Donald and Anne (McKinnon) Murray. Margaret’s sister Annabelle named their daughter Jessie.
Editor’s note: Lamb symbolizes innocence and can mark the grave of a child.
John, Mary & Duncan Murray
In memory of John Murray, died March 15, 1864, age 87
His wife Mary, died Feb. 20, 1871, age 84
Their son Duncan, died Jan. 12, 1855
These are the Murray’s of the Baltic Road. John Murray was born in Scotland in 1777. He came to Dog River in 1808 with wife Mary McPhail, daughter of Malcolm McPhail. Appears on 1863 Lake Map as J. Murray on West Dog River Road. Their children are Angus (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Catherine (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Mary, Margaret (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Donald (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Alexander, John, Duncan (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), and Mary.
John and Mary are the Great x3 grandparents of Fred Beer, Donna Green Beer, Donald Murray, Byron Murray and Joan Murray Smith.
Editor’s note: Appears to have a shamrock carved with hand pointing to bible and heaven. Shamrock represents Irish heritage and/or the Trinity.
Margaret, Margaret M. & Mary Murray
In memory of Margaret Murray
Wife of Dougall MacDougall, died Feb. 16, 1842, age 29 (first burial in cemetery)
Also his daughter Margaret M., died in Argyle Shore, September 8, 1860, age 18
Also Mary, died July 27, 1853, age 14
Margaret was born in 1812 in Clyde River and she is the daughter of John and Mary Murray. If you study the dates, it appears that her husband Dougall MacDougall lost his wife in childbirth and was left to raise an infant (named after her mother) and a three-year old, only to lose both his dear daughters as young adults. Margaret’s siblings were Angus (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Catherine (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Mary (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Donald (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery), Alexander, John, Duncan (also buried in Pioneer Cemetery) and Mary.
Marian Murray
In memory of Marian, beloved daughter of John & Isabel Murray, died Apr. 21, 1876, age 19 years
Her parents were John and Isabella Murray, daughter of Archibald Murray. Their children were Ann, baby daughter, Margaret J, Catherine, John A., and Duncan. Her grandparents were John and Mary (McPhail) Murray on her father’s side.
Editor’s note: Carved roses are often featured on a woman’s stone. Symbolizes love, beauty, hope and unfailing love. For a young girl, the rose may be still be a bud or at least not in full bloom to represent a life that was not fully lived. Carver’s signature on bottom left corner.
More information on founding families can be found in The History and Stories of Clyde River.
We are open to suggestions on how the stones can be further enhanced, protected from weather damage and preserved for future generations. The years have taken their toll on the Pioneer Cemetery, and although the Clyde River Community Council ensures the grass is cut, resources are needed to clean and straighten these precious stones that tell the early history of this community. Ideas can be shared in the comments section below this story.
A storyboard was created which is displayed in the Clyde River Baptist Church Cemetery during the summer season. It features the inscriptions recorded in this story.
Resources:
McLean Family Collection
History and Stories of Clyde River
Eric MacPhail’s scrapbook